Your Security Is Our Priority
Use verification, privacy controls, reporting tools, and safer meeting habits to make more informed PPM dating decisions.
Comprehensive Safety Features
Privacy Protection
Limit the personal details on your profile and approve private-photo access only for members you choose.
Profile Verification
100% of members must complete the required identity and photo verification process.
Scam Awareness
Learn the warning signs of impersonation, advance-payment requests, and attempts to obtain financial information.
Safe Communication
Keep early conversations on the platform and never share bank details, card numbers, or account passwords.
Respectful Interactions
Clear community guidelines ensure every interaction remains respectful, consensual, and aligned with our values.
Personal Boundaries
Your boundaries are yours. No agreement ever overrides your personal comfort or consent. Block anyone instantly.
Meeting Safely
Meeting someone new is exciting. Following a few simple guidelines ensures every experience remains positive, safe, and enjoyable.
Choose Public Places
Always arrange first meetings in public settings — restaurants, cafés, hotels, or popular venues where you feel comfortable.
Tell Someone You Trust
Share your plans with a friend: where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back.
Use Your Own Transport
Arrive and leave independently. Having your own transportation ensures you're always in control of your schedule.
Trust Your Instincts
If something feels off, it probably is. You can always leave, reschedule, or decline. Your comfort is non-negotiable.
"Verification helps, but your own judgment and boundaries still matter."
Recognizing & Avoiding Scams
Be cautious of members who: ask for money before meeting, refuse to verify their profile, pressure you into sharing personal information, make unrealistic promises, or avoid answering direct questions about themselves. Genuine members are happy to verify and communicate openly.
Never share your bank details, credit card numbers, or online banking credentials with anyone on the platform. Legitimate connections never require you to send money or share financial information. Report any member who asks for this immediately.
Use the "Report" button on any profile or conversation and include the details the safety team needs to review the issue. You can also email safety@paypermeet.org. Contact local emergency services if you face an immediate threat.
Every member completes identity and photo checks before receiving a verification badge. A badge confirms completion of those checks; it is not a guarantee of another person's intentions or future behavior.
Plan Your First PPM Date With Practical Safeguards
Complete verification, keep control of your personal information, and meet only when the plan and terms feel right.